Self Transformation - Changeover to a Better and Smarter You.
Indu Sabbarwal Mehta : 'Life isn’t about finding yourself. Life is about creating
yourself' said George Bernard Shaw. The best advice I got from one of my mentors
long ago was “change yourself first.” His rationale was simple: You’re
the only one you can change, and the fastest thing you can change in any
situation is yourself.
Self-transformation is the key to getting unstuck, so 'Claim Your
Innate Power'.
Changing others is tough. We can inspire, motivate,
cajole or influence others, however, changing oneself is the fastest way to get
superior results as we can control our own attitude and actions.
We need not change our values, just our style or how we
think, feel or behave in a particular situation. Do remember that we are not
our behaviour and this gives us more flexibility in how we respond.
Self-transform to be victorious, self-transformation often
detoxes and sets us free leading to personal victories.
It need not be dramatic, it simply
needs opening our minds to things we’ve blocked-out viz learning a new skill or
sharpening an old one; seeking expert help; conquering self-doubt or failure, success-anxiety; developing a new attitude, adopting new ways of doing things or forsaking a deluded belief. Even if we don’t know how to change,
simply looking inwards with mindful responsibility, acceptance of
responsibility for strengthening, what weakens you and correcting any
misconceptions it holds, can most likely yield remarkable results.
Begin self-transformation by owning the problem and decide what
needs to be done. For example, when my marriage was in trouble, I told myself, “I
need to control my anger. And when marriage failed, I abandoned my belief
that I need a spouse to be happy.”
If you’re stuck and getting nowhere fast, change your
thoughts, feelings and actions to discover breakthroughs. In my example, I
altered my attitude towards an unchanging situation and chose love over fear to
change the scenario for self.
To live the life you were born to be, you need to take charge of
your self-transformation NOW.
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